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Black tie — the hub

My black tie party trick.

Every gentleman at the wedding wore the same tuxedo shirt. Same black studs. Same everything. Start with the staple, then make it yours.

Brian in a tan corduroy Brunello Cucinelli tuxedo
01 — the staple

Start with SuitSupply.

SuitSupply is a great workhorse. The tux and the shirt everyone has. They're the base, not the look. Mine are Brunello or Ralph Lauren Purple Label.

The all-around tux, Havana tuxedo in pure S110's wool.SuitSupplyThe all-around tuxHavana tuxedo in pure S110's wool.The shirt everyone has, Egyptian cotton. Now zhuzh it up.SuitSupplyThe shirt everyone hasEgyptian cotton. Now zhuzh it up.
02 — add the studs

Swap the black studs.

A vintage set: platinum, abalone or Mikimoto pearls.

Platinum + abalone, $329. Everyone else wore black.Krementz · vintagePlatinum + abalone$329. Everyone else wore black.Pearl + onyx, Studs and cufflinks, boxed.Mikimoto · vintagePearl + onyxStuds and cufflinks, boxed.
All the studs
03 — add the brooch

Pin a brooch on it.

Art Deco filigree platinum on a man's lapel. Mine came from The RealReal, under $1K.

Platinum filigree, Old-cut diamonds. $595, forever.ESEMCO · Art DecoPlatinum filigreeOld-cut diamonds. $595, forever.Platinum + diamond, 0.38 ct.Art DecoPlatinum + diamond0.38 ct.
Every brooch I'd wear
04 — upgrade the tux

No one does a tux like Brunello.

Corduroy. Felted wool. Velvet. Fabrics nobody else puts on black tie. Same classic silhouette, totally different texture, and that's the whole point. That's tan corduroy Brunello up top. New with tags on eBay for about a fifth of retail, and over $500 eBay authenticates it.

Velvet tux jacket, New with tags. $4,995 retail, $1,062 on eBay.Brunello CucinelliVelvet tux jacketNew with tags. $4,995 retail, $1,062 on eBay.Brunello Cucinelli Velvet Double-Breasted Tuxedo Suit, New with tagseBayBrunello Cucinelli Velvet Double-Breasted Tuxedo SuitNew with tagsBrunello Cucinelli Cashmere-Blend Two-Tone Double-Breasted Tuxedo Jacket, New with tagseBayBrunello Cucinelli Cashmere-Blend Two-Tone Double-Breasted Tuxedo JacketNew with tags
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FAQ

Is buying Brunello Cucinelli on eBay safe?

Over $500, eBay authenticates it.

Can men wear a brooch with a tuxedo?

Yes. Make it platinum and Art Deco.

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